"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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holy sh*t... kill me

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What may seem like a godsend is a curse in disguise.

So this girl Lindsey and I went to the same school freshman year. She got kicked out for doing sexual stuff, and we never spoke. I thought she was FINE tho.

Last month, I found her on the internet with her lil website thing. We talked, she didn't live too far, and I happened to be in the area, so I stopped by. We talked for two hours, and we got intimately close on her couch, but I didnt make a move, I was waiting for her to.. when I walked out to my car, she kissed me, and we made out for a couple minutes. It was the best kiss I ever had! :)

I asked her to prom friday, she said yes. :)

Saturday, my best friend of 12 years Jack and his girlfriend Cara were having relationship problems. The cause: Cara's younger sister is kinda weird, and was takin her sister to see some stupid ass drug dealer often in a town a couple miles north.

Jack wanted me to get with the sister (shes kinda cute) to keep both of them out of trouble, and I did this.

Now, I am attached to this girl, who needs my help, and is a very delightful but misguided girl. Jack suddenly had a change of heart, and insists I should ditch Lindsey and take the sister to prom instead! She's not half the woman Lindsey is, and not a quarter as social. The problem is, she's my girlfriend, and she's obsessed with me. OBSESSED.

IONNO WHAT TO DO. She's obsessed with me, should I take her out of respect? Or continue with Lindsey, who is a very good match for me?

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Look it all depends on who your into the most cause youll always regreat not going with the one u want .

I had the same problem and instead of going with this girl i really wanted i went with this alright chick (I LOWERED MY HIGH STANDARDS AND THAT NEVER WORKS FOR ME)she wasnt to bad still qute but i wanst into her and over the summer just grew disgusted. now i got one quarter and prom left and im go make the right choice.

so which ever makes you fell like you could last with them choose
 
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I know that you care but go with Lindsey unless your friend can give you some cash for your efforts:D. You've got to start doing things in your own interest. If your friend doesn't like that then hes not worth the effort.
 
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You have to be the judge here. My suggestion is that you try and talk to Jack about it and tell him your perspective on the situation.
 
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What the hell is this? This isn't even a story. This is just bad. This is the adventure of your life!? Dating the girl your friend tells you to date and then asking us what's the right thing to do?

Tool.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
What the hell is this? This isn't even a story. This is just bad. This is the adventure of your life!? Dating the girl your friend tells you to date and then asking us what's the right thing to do?

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NOw that I come to think about it more clearly, LikRetsam, you make a good point.
 
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I'm on it.

I mean, just do what YOU want to dude. Don't do what your friend wants you to do. Be a leader not a follower.
 
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Go with lindsey, if the sister is younger, you can go to her prom later :p. Dont listen to your friend, hes just using you.
 
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You can be both the good samaritan and play the game to your benefit.


One scenario - Ditch lindsay and bring the young girl. Lindsay gets jealous as hell and wants your c0ck more than ever. The young girl will be happy as hell and won't go crazy after finding out that you brought some other girl to prom. You've saved one troubled teen and macked the other.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by California Love
One scenario - Ditch lindsay and bring the young girl. Lindsay gets jealous as hell and wants your c0ck more than ever.
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Or Lindsay finds out your an excuzer for taking a girl to prom just because your friend told you to and Lindsay falls in love with your friend whos more alpha than you. I say take them both to prom:D or just Lindsay. Don't be your friends doormat, respect yourself.

By the way I wouldn't consider going with the sister because why waste prom night with a girl you don't want just to tease another girl?

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