"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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holy sh*t... kill me

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What may seem like a godsend is a curse in disguise.

So this girl Lindsey and I went to the same school freshman year. She got kicked out for doing sexual stuff, and we never spoke. I thought she was FINE tho.

Last month, I found her on the internet with her lil website thing. We talked, she didn't live too far, and I happened to be in the area, so I stopped by. We talked for two hours, and we got intimately close on her couch, but I didnt make a move, I was waiting for her to.. when I walked out to my car, she kissed me, and we made out for a couple minutes. It was the best kiss I ever had! :)

I asked her to prom friday, she said yes. :)

Saturday, my best friend of 12 years Jack and his girlfriend Cara were having relationship problems. The cause: Cara's younger sister is kinda weird, and was takin her sister to see some stupid ass drug dealer often in a town a couple miles north.

Jack wanted me to get with the sister (shes kinda cute) to keep both of them out of trouble, and I did this.

Now, I am attached to this girl, who needs my help, and is a very delightful but misguided girl. Jack suddenly had a change of heart, and insists I should ditch Lindsey and take the sister to prom instead! She's not half the woman Lindsey is, and not a quarter as social. The problem is, she's my girlfriend, and she's obsessed with me. OBSESSED.

IONNO WHAT TO DO. She's obsessed with me, should I take her out of respect? Or continue with Lindsey, who is a very good match for me?

Help me!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Look it all depends on who your into the most cause youll always regreat not going with the one u want .

I had the same problem and instead of going with this girl i really wanted i went with this alright chick (I LOWERED MY HIGH STANDARDS AND THAT NEVER WORKS FOR ME)she wasnt to bad still qute but i wanst into her and over the summer just grew disgusted. now i got one quarter and prom left and im go make the right choice.

so which ever makes you fell like you could last with them choose
 
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I know that you care but go with Lindsey unless your friend can give you some cash for your efforts:D. You've got to start doing things in your own interest. If your friend doesn't like that then hes not worth the effort.
 
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You have to be the judge here. My suggestion is that you try and talk to Jack about it and tell him your perspective on the situation.
 
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What the hell is this? This isn't even a story. This is just bad. This is the adventure of your life!? Dating the girl your friend tells you to date and then asking us what's the right thing to do?

Tool.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
What the hell is this? This isn't even a story. This is just bad. This is the adventure of your life!? Dating the girl your friend tells you to date and then asking us what's the right thing to do?

Tool.
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NOw that I come to think about it more clearly, LikRetsam, you make a good point.
 
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I'm on it.

I mean, just do what YOU want to dude. Don't do what your friend wants you to do. Be a leader not a follower.
 
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Go with lindsey, if the sister is younger, you can go to her prom later :p. Dont listen to your friend, hes just using you.
 
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You can be both the good samaritan and play the game to your benefit.


One scenario - Ditch lindsay and bring the young girl. Lindsay gets jealous as hell and wants your c0ck more than ever. The young girl will be happy as hell and won't go crazy after finding out that you brought some other girl to prom. You've saved one troubled teen and macked the other.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by California Love
One scenario - Ditch lindsay and bring the young girl. Lindsay gets jealous as hell and wants your c0ck more than ever.
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Or Lindsay finds out your an excuzer for taking a girl to prom just because your friend told you to and Lindsay falls in love with your friend whos more alpha than you. I say take them both to prom:D or just Lindsay. Don't be your friends doormat, respect yourself.

By the way I wouldn't consider going with the sister because why waste prom night with a girl you don't want just to tease another girl?

Animal
 
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