"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Holy Sh!t did I screw up.

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This past weekend I got a call from my ex telling me that her current boyfriend was in tahoe and that she needed a ride into Phoenix to get her license reintstated (Had it suspended for no proof of insurance). Our relationship ended kinda badly, she was sneaky, distrustworthy, and kinda a *****. Well.. the morning I was suppose to take her to the court, I showed up at about 9 am, she was still in bed and needless to say we never made it the living room all day. Well.. Today I got a call saying that I took advantage of her and that she feels horrible that she was seduced into cheating on her boyfriend.

I didn't really know what to think about all of this to tell you the truth, she changes her mind at the drop of a dime and I had no idea that I could seduce her, let alone when she is half asleep. Anyways.. now I feel crappy for even showing up and throwing myself fact into the fvcked up situation that is her life. Ohh well, atleast i got laid. *sigh* :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Haha, well, don't feel bad about it. It was probably her fault anyways. But I want to make a side point. I don't think you should be sticking around heing her chauffer. So what, she needs a ride? Doesn't she have anyone else besides you? Don't you have better things to do than drive a sneaky, distrustworthy, bitchy girl around? Come on man, unless you get laid, it isn't really worth wasting your time for.

Well... you did get laid.
 
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She did ask you for a ride....;) You gave her one!

I don't know what this tramp is whining about.
 
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Remember this always because it works both ways:

A woman cannot be seduced, hypnotized, or NLP'ed into doing anything that they are opposed to doing. If they are repelled to the idea of being with you, there is NOTHING you can do to make that happen. On the other side of the coin, if she slept with you unless it was rape, it was an idea in her mind that SHE CHOSE to go through with. She was only seduced because she wanted to be seduced. That's always how it works.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell her to piss off and that you are sure that her bf would love to know that of all the people she could have called... she called you and she was still in bed when you showed up!
 
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