"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Holy Sh!t did I screw up.

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This past weekend I got a call from my ex telling me that her current boyfriend was in tahoe and that she needed a ride into Phoenix to get her license reintstated (Had it suspended for no proof of insurance). Our relationship ended kinda badly, she was sneaky, distrustworthy, and kinda a *****. Well.. the morning I was suppose to take her to the court, I showed up at about 9 am, she was still in bed and needless to say we never made it the living room all day. Well.. Today I got a call saying that I took advantage of her and that she feels horrible that she was seduced into cheating on her boyfriend.

I didn't really know what to think about all of this to tell you the truth, she changes her mind at the drop of a dime and I had no idea that I could seduce her, let alone when she is half asleep. Anyways.. now I feel crappy for even showing up and throwing myself fact into the fvcked up situation that is her life. Ohh well, atleast i got laid. *sigh* :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NRM

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Haha, well, don't feel bad about it. It was probably her fault anyways. But I want to make a side point. I don't think you should be sticking around heing her chauffer. So what, she needs a ride? Doesn't she have anyone else besides you? Don't you have better things to do than drive a sneaky, distrustworthy, bitchy girl around? Come on man, unless you get laid, it isn't really worth wasting your time for.

Well... you did get laid.
 

WaterTiger

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She did ask you for a ride....;) You gave her one!

I don't know what this tramp is whining about.
 

xblitz44x

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Remember this always because it works both ways:

A woman cannot be seduced, hypnotized, or NLP'ed into doing anything that they are opposed to doing. If they are repelled to the idea of being with you, there is NOTHING you can do to make that happen. On the other side of the coin, if she slept with you unless it was rape, it was an idea in her mind that SHE CHOSE to go through with. She was only seduced because she wanted to be seduced. That's always how it works.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cremasta

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Tell her to piss off and that you are sure that her bf would love to know that of all the people she could have called... she called you and she was still in bed when you showed up!
 
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