"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Holy moly.. Mildly obsessed after first date with a girl.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Cop and Blow

Cop a new b!tch, blow off an old b!tch.
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
Do not do that. You have already been semi stalking her, but she doesn't know that (I hope, who knows, maybe she does women can be pretty perceptive about that. It wouldn't surprise me if she figured out that you were really the 2nd guy asking those questions). But if you do that? She is going to think you are a Grade A creeper.

Seriously, just delete her name and phone number and ignore. Maybe, just maybe she will wonder where you have been after a week or two and ask you out. That really is your only hope.
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."

seriously how have u got so many rep points??

all thats going to do is make u look pathetic even the whole ive been hectic blah blah blah seemed pathetic to me. just dont give a **** and listen to what concorde said
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
DO NOT!
 

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Just looking at the fourth page of this thread pretty much validates what everyone was saying at the beggining. You cant be "mildly obsessed" with a girl after one date and then expect things to turn out well. Who didnt see this coming?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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