"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Holy moly.. Mildly obsessed after first date with a girl.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Cop and Blow

Cop a new b!tch, blow off an old b!tch.
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
Do not do that. You have already been semi stalking her, but she doesn't know that (I hope, who knows, maybe she does women can be pretty perceptive about that. It wouldn't surprise me if she figured out that you were really the 2nd guy asking those questions). But if you do that? She is going to think you are a Grade A creeper.

Seriously, just delete her name and phone number and ignore. Maybe, just maybe she will wonder where you have been after a week or two and ask you out. That really is your only hope.
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."

seriously how have u got so many rep points??

all thats going to do is make u look pathetic even the whole ive been hectic blah blah blah seemed pathetic to me. just dont give a **** and listen to what concorde said
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
DO NOT!
 

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Just looking at the fourth page of this thread pretty much validates what everyone was saying at the beggining. You cant be "mildly obsessed" with a girl after one date and then expect things to turn out well. Who didnt see this coming?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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