Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Holy moly.. Mildly obsessed after first date with a girl.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Cop and Blow

Cop a new b!tch, blow off an old b!tch.
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
Do not do that. You have already been semi stalking her, but she doesn't know that (I hope, who knows, maybe she does women can be pretty perceptive about that. It wouldn't surprise me if she figured out that you were really the 2nd guy asking those questions). But if you do that? She is going to think you are a Grade A creeper.

Seriously, just delete her name and phone number and ignore. Maybe, just maybe she will wonder where you have been after a week or two and ask you out. That really is your only hope.
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."

seriously how have u got so many rep points??

all thats going to do is make u look pathetic even the whole ive been hectic blah blah blah seemed pathetic to me. just dont give a **** and listen to what concorde said
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
DO NOT!
 

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Just looking at the fourth page of this thread pretty much validates what everyone was saying at the beggining. You cant be "mildly obsessed" with a girl after one date and then expect things to turn out well. Who didnt see this coming?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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