"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Holy moly.. Mildly obsessed after first date with a girl.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Cop and Blow

Cop a new b!tch, blow off an old b!tch.
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
Do not do that. You have already been semi stalking her, but she doesn't know that (I hope, who knows, maybe she does women can be pretty perceptive about that. It wouldn't surprise me if she figured out that you were really the 2nd guy asking those questions). But if you do that? She is going to think you are a Grade A creeper.

Seriously, just delete her name and phone number and ignore. Maybe, just maybe she will wonder where you have been after a week or two and ask you out. That really is your only hope.
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."

seriously how have u got so many rep points??

all thats going to do is make u look pathetic even the whole ive been hectic blah blah blah seemed pathetic to me. just dont give a **** and listen to what concorde said
 

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Korrupt said:
I'm hanging out a second time with someone else today.

And I'm seriously tempted to send this girl: "Well since you're obviously not interested in going out again, I can always just bring over a bottle of Vodka and a box of condoms and we can "chill" at your place. That works too."
DO NOT!
 

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Just looking at the fourth page of this thread pretty much validates what everyone was saying at the beggining. You cant be "mildly obsessed" with a girl after one date and then expect things to turn out well. Who didnt see this coming?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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