"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Holy mackerel....

Darth

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How does kino work so well?

I was at a Christmas party last night, and saw a very attractive woman there. Probably in her 40's though, and she was married, so of course I wasn't going for her...just practicing.

Me: (walked up and smiled)
Her: Well hello!
Me: Where do I know you from?

Anyway, early on I lightly brushed her jacket once while talking. The second time I just gestured...I meant to touch her arm but my arm didn't even make it.

By the end she was basically hitting me and laughing. She touched me 3 times in a row in the arm. She just completely opened up- personal space barrier just came crashing down. Touch touch touch.

Then her husband came and I had to talk to him.

But anyway, how does this work so well? It was instant!

I have to do this more often...it's like magic!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gottagetthatgirl said:
Hey, 40 years old isnt all bad!! Better get a girl before you turn out like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQMMSAj0EOc

Seriously though, next time go for the 40 year old woman if she looks good. No shame in that :) You could have stolen her from that dude.......
Lol...

1. She's married
2. I'm 18
 

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big deal dude! I use to think like that too, she might wanna fool around. I bet that dude in the video had the same mindset at one time.

I use to think like that too then I wised up :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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