"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Holy mackerel....

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How does kino work so well?

I was at a Christmas party last night, and saw a very attractive woman there. Probably in her 40's though, and she was married, so of course I wasn't going for her...just practicing.

Me: (walked up and smiled)
Her: Well hello!
Me: Where do I know you from?

Anyway, early on I lightly brushed her jacket once while talking. The second time I just gestured...I meant to touch her arm but my arm didn't even make it.

By the end she was basically hitting me and laughing. She touched me 3 times in a row in the arm. She just completely opened up- personal space barrier just came crashing down. Touch touch touch.

Then her husband came and I had to talk to him.

But anyway, how does this work so well? It was instant!

I have to do this more often...it's like magic!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gottagetthatgirl said:
Hey, 40 years old isnt all bad!! Better get a girl before you turn out like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQMMSAj0EOc

Seriously though, next time go for the 40 year old woman if she looks good. No shame in that :) You could have stolen her from that dude.......
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Lol...

1. She's married
2. I'm 18
 
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big deal dude! I use to think like that too, she might wanna fool around. I bet that dude in the video had the same mindset at one time.

I use to think like that too then I wised up :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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