"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Holy mackerel....

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How does kino work so well?

I was at a Christmas party last night, and saw a very attractive woman there. Probably in her 40's though, and she was married, so of course I wasn't going for her...just practicing.

Me: (walked up and smiled)
Her: Well hello!
Me: Where do I know you from?

Anyway, early on I lightly brushed her jacket once while talking. The second time I just gestured...I meant to touch her arm but my arm didn't even make it.

By the end she was basically hitting me and laughing. She touched me 3 times in a row in the arm. She just completely opened up- personal space barrier just came crashing down. Touch touch touch.

Then her husband came and I had to talk to him.

But anyway, how does this work so well? It was instant!

I have to do this more often...it's like magic!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gottagetthatgirl said:
Hey, 40 years old isnt all bad!! Better get a girl before you turn out like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQMMSAj0EOc

Seriously though, next time go for the 40 year old woman if she looks good. No shame in that :) You could have stolen her from that dude.......
Lol...

1. She's married
2. I'm 18
 

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big deal dude! I use to think like that too, she might wanna fool around. I bet that dude in the video had the same mindset at one time.

I use to think like that too then I wised up :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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