Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Holy crap….I thought this dude was getting tail because he seems charismatic and quite a charmer. Man….I don’t know if I should continue my sessions with him now. What do you guys think? Nobody’s perfect right?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Holy crap! My therapist went to jail for stalking a chick!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
This dude is a good looking dude, about 6’1, 6’2,….he must have fallen hard for some poon man…keep your heart and soul guarded and follow your purpose fellas…just a simple reminder
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Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 31, 2023
- Messages
- 454
- Reaction score
- 594
- Age
- 60
It says he's been arrested, which doesn't mean he's done anything.
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Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 12, 2009
- Messages
- 10,398
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Sometimes these types tend to overplay their hand as far as confidence is concerned. Normally they just rubbed the wrong way with the wrong girl. Average guys like ourselves don't overplay confidence so there is no risk of going too far with any girl as we are too shy to go there (ie stalking women). The issue with us is more motivation and belief our efforts will have a decent outcome.