Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Holy crap….I thought this dude was getting tail because he seems charismatic and quite a charmer. Man….I don’t know if I should continue my sessions with him now. What do you guys think? Nobody’s perfect right?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Holy crap! My therapist went to jail for stalking a chick!!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
This dude is a good looking dude, about 6’1, 6’2,….he must have fallen hard for some poon man…keep your heart and soul guarded and follow your purpose fellas…just a simple reminder
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It says he's been arrested, which doesn't mean he's done anything.
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Sometimes these types tend to overplay their hand as far as confidence is concerned. Normally they just rubbed the wrong way with the wrong girl. Average guys like ourselves don't overplay confidence so there is no risk of going too far with any girl as we are too shy to go there (ie stalking women). The issue with us is more motivation and belief our efforts will have a decent outcome.