"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Holy crap! My therapist went to jail for stalking a chick!!

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Holy crap….I thought this dude was getting tail because he seems charismatic and quite a charmer. Man….I don’t know if I should continue my sessions with him now. What do you guys think? Nobody’s perfect right?


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This dude is a good looking dude, about 6’1, 6’2,….he must have fallen hard for some poon man…keep your heart and soul guarded and follow your purpose fellas…just a simple reminder
 

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It says he's been arrested, which doesn't mean he's done anything.
This dude is a good looking dude, about 6’1, 6’2,….he must have fallen hard for some poon man…keep your heart and soul guarded and follow your purpose fellas…just a simple reminder
 

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This dude is a good looking dude, about 6’1, 6’2,….he must have fallen hard for some poon man…keep your heart and soul guarded and follow your purpose fellas…just a simple reminder
Sometimes these types tend to overplay their hand as far as confidence is concerned. Normally they just rubbed the wrong way with the wrong girl. Average guys like ourselves don't overplay confidence so there is no risk of going too far with any girl as we are too shy to go there (ie stalking women). The issue with us is more motivation and belief our efforts will have a decent outcome.
 
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