"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Holy cow, Match.com has some hotties

Ricky

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Man just for giggles I was looking up my area, mainly because a girl I know said she has done some online dating. So I was looking for her, but in the process saw a ton of hot girls.

Now I have done online dating before and the only way to do it is to send out tons of replies with a form letter to all the hotties. Many of the hotties get overran with options.

I told myself a few months ago that I'd never try online dating again. But guess what, I may just do it again, especially with moving to a new town soon.

DAMN i was surprised!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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squirrels

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Just out of curiosity...how many of the REALLY hot ones are just cam*****s trying to get you to pay to check out their webcam? There are TONS of those on MySpace.

BTW...Anything Else. ;)
 

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I signed up just for ****s and giggles as well. I have yet to see any "hot" girls yet. THey send me a different email every week of girls that match my profile. I think only like 3 of them I would have tagged. Ive heard of people hooking up with chicks from these sites, never tried though. Check out adultfriendfinder.com.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Jager_Boy
I signed up just for ****s and giggles as well. I have yet to see any "hot" girls yet. THey send me a different email every week of girls that match my profile. I think only like 3 of them I would have tagged. Ive heard of people hooking up with chicks from these sites, never tried though. Check out adultfriendfinder.com.
You're kidding, right?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
You're kidding, right?
Im kidding about what?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Preferring Adult Friend Finder over Match. I mean, isn't AFF used just to find FBs? Plus, aren't the majority of the ads fake?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Preferring Adult Friend Finder over Match. I mean, isn't AFF used just to find FBs? Plus, aren't the majority of the ads fake?
I have no idea, never used it. Ive seen hotter girls on aff, that are all about banging, in my opinion, thats better than an ugly girl that wants a relationship. Either way, Im off to the bar to use my ultimate pimping skills... :D
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Preferring Adult Friend Finder over Match. I mean, isn't AFF used just to find FBs? Plus, aren't the majority of the ads fake?
but for the ones that are real, its all good lol its almost like legal prostitution and you don't gotta pay for the sex at that. :p
 
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