Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Holy cow, Match.com has some hotties

Ricky

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Man just for giggles I was looking up my area, mainly because a girl I know said she has done some online dating. So I was looking for her, but in the process saw a ton of hot girls.

Now I have done online dating before and the only way to do it is to send out tons of replies with a form letter to all the hotties. Many of the hotties get overran with options.

I told myself a few months ago that I'd never try online dating again. But guess what, I may just do it again, especially with moving to a new town soon.

DAMN i was surprised!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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squirrels

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Just out of curiosity...how many of the REALLY hot ones are just cam*****s trying to get you to pay to check out their webcam? There are TONS of those on MySpace.

BTW...Anything Else. ;)
 

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I signed up just for ****s and giggles as well. I have yet to see any "hot" girls yet. THey send me a different email every week of girls that match my profile. I think only like 3 of them I would have tagged. Ive heard of people hooking up with chicks from these sites, never tried though. Check out adultfriendfinder.com.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Jager_Boy
I signed up just for ****s and giggles as well. I have yet to see any "hot" girls yet. THey send me a different email every week of girls that match my profile. I think only like 3 of them I would have tagged. Ive heard of people hooking up with chicks from these sites, never tried though. Check out adultfriendfinder.com.
You're kidding, right?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
You're kidding, right?
Im kidding about what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Preferring Adult Friend Finder over Match. I mean, isn't AFF used just to find FBs? Plus, aren't the majority of the ads fake?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Preferring Adult Friend Finder over Match. I mean, isn't AFF used just to find FBs? Plus, aren't the majority of the ads fake?
I have no idea, never used it. Ive seen hotter girls on aff, that are all about banging, in my opinion, thats better than an ugly girl that wants a relationship. Either way, Im off to the bar to use my ultimate pimping skills... :D
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Preferring Adult Friend Finder over Match. I mean, isn't AFF used just to find FBs? Plus, aren't the majority of the ads fake?
but for the ones that are real, its all good lol its almost like legal prostitution and you don't gotta pay for the sex at that. :p
 
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