"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hollywood video girl.

ashman1

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hey guys , ive kinda stopped approaching for a while , and im tring to get back into it .

saw this hollywood video girl HB7 working by herself on sunday ,
and i was looking for a movie and i couldent find it .

but i decided to ask her if they had it anyway, just to break the ice
when she said they didnt have it , i acted dissapointed . said it was for a
school course and the report was due tomorrow .

she said sorry , and that she felt bad that they didnt have the movie.
and i said , yeah its all your fault ! she laughed and i said now you're going to have to make it up to me ! , she said well i can get you another movie !
and i said nah, how about dinner and a movie !

she laughed again, and said she couldent ,beacuse she couldent leave with me right then , i said oh well , and something to effect of " have a nice day "
or something . didnt number close or anything. but just trying to get back in the groove of approaching again . how did i do ? - N :nervous:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Igetit!

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I think you did pretty good. If this is the first time that you have approached in a while,then it is expected that you would be a little rusty. Overall,nice job man.
 
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