Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hollywood video girl.

ashman1

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hey guys , ive kinda stopped approaching for a while , and im tring to get back into it .

saw this hollywood video girl HB7 working by herself on sunday ,
and i was looking for a movie and i couldent find it .

but i decided to ask her if they had it anyway, just to break the ice
when she said they didnt have it , i acted dissapointed . said it was for a
school course and the report was due tomorrow .

she said sorry , and that she felt bad that they didnt have the movie.
and i said , yeah its all your fault ! she laughed and i said now you're going to have to make it up to me ! , she said well i can get you another movie !
and i said nah, how about dinner and a movie !

she laughed again, and said she couldent ,beacuse she couldent leave with me right then , i said oh well , and something to effect of " have a nice day "
or something . didnt number close or anything. but just trying to get back in the groove of approaching again . how did i do ? - N :nervous:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think you did pretty good. If this is the first time that you have approached in a while,then it is expected that you would be a little rusty. Overall,nice job man.
 
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