"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hollywood video girl.

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hey guys , ive kinda stopped approaching for a while , and im tring to get back into it .

saw this hollywood video girl HB7 working by herself on sunday ,
and i was looking for a movie and i couldent find it .

but i decided to ask her if they had it anyway, just to break the ice
when she said they didnt have it , i acted dissapointed . said it was for a
school course and the report was due tomorrow .

she said sorry , and that she felt bad that they didnt have the movie.
and i said , yeah its all your fault ! she laughed and i said now you're going to have to make it up to me ! , she said well i can get you another movie !
and i said nah, how about dinner and a movie !

she laughed again, and said she couldent ,beacuse she couldent leave with me right then , i said oh well , and something to effect of " have a nice day "
or something . didnt number close or anything. but just trying to get back in the groove of approaching again . how did i do ? - N :nervous:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Igetit!

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I think you did pretty good. If this is the first time that you have approached in a while,then it is expected that you would be a little rusty. Overall,nice job man.
 
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