"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, so here's the deal. I live in Edmonton, and snagged a pair of really high seats to an Oilers game. I've known this chick for a couple years, shes fairly hot....So we will be sitting last row at Rexall Place ( the arena )

Any of you guys ever taken a girl to a hockey game as a date ( mind you this isnt a first date, this is a girl ive known for quite a while who has admitted she is very attracted to me )

Any tips or suggestions of what I can do on the very top row of the building? lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. guys have to make the first move 90% of the time
2. once you get them horny you can basically do whatever you want and theyre game for it
3. dont do anything crazy or youll get thrown in jail for indecent exposure lol
4. i coulda swore they were all on strike
 

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well something just came up...when i asked her to the game...she was single....now she has a boyfriend who shes been on and off with for a couple years...should I still try to make a move ( she is still coming )

Think I could pull off a good time with a little bit of fun :crackup: from her?
 

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ill tell you a little story... i went out with a girl for 3 months in my afc days... she dumped me obviously... 8 months later we started talking again and she wants me worse than i wanted her (and that was pretty bad) and now she has a boyfriend and i bang her once a week... were dj's bro... not to offend anyone... but boyfriend is just a word to most girls... if you see all the right signs and feel like you can take the shot.. go for it
 

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her boyfriend is kind of one of my buds ( fairly close ) so I feel a little bit confused about what I action i should take with this gal... any suggestions...?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bros before hoes.... if hes really your boy then i wouldnt
 

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So heres an update. Her boyfriend is a total AFC, as much as he may be my best friend...but the girl was awesome tonight...We were holding hands while walking the concourse....i was touching her ( like ass and kino and stuff ) and she didnt mind at all and she was very flirty....flirting is kind of her nature but we did hold hands alot...so maybe thats progress...now im gonna let her go cold turkey and play the waiting game...

any tips?
 

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Originally posted by davester88
So heres an update. Her boyfriend is a total AFC, as much as he may be my best friend...but the girl was awesome tonight...We were holding hands while walking the concourse....i was touching her ( like ass and kino and stuff ) and she didnt mind at all and she was very flirty....flirting is kind of her nature but we did hold hands alot...so maybe thats progress...now im gonna let her go cold turkey and play the waiting game...

any tips?
EXCELLENT!

Call her in like two days, and be like "yeah I really had a good time friday night, you looked really nice.... I was wondering if you want to go do ____________(insert activity) on ________(insert day). She'll say yes or offer to reschedule.

Follow up on your awesome performance, and at least make out with her.

Two thumbs up!
 

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Well one of our buddies is having a bit of a get together tonight and she is going....i think she bailed on her plans with her boyfriend today ( whos also a good bud of mine....) We always talk about making out and stuff....I know she's definitely game....but I don't wanna hurt my bud who is a total AFC....any advice what to do?

Let her go cold turkey?....not go tonite to the get together, I have other offers to go out other places so maybe I should do that.....But I know shes attracted to me and we could have some fun :D but don't wanna hurt my buddy just yet....or at all for that matter so I should maybe take her out once more and then be patient and wait for them to break up eh?

Also, I'm not really wanting a relationship ( the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing persay ) just someone to go out with and have some fun, but more than a fcuk buddy, you know?

Any tips, ideas or past experiences you could share relating?

Thanks guys, and thanks AC/DC for the 2 thumbs up!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AC/DC, do you think because i didnt go for the kiss at the game right away that dropped her interest level? after reading your post about who cares if she has a boyfriend....i will be following that the next game we go to in a couple of weeks....thanks guys
 

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Just a quick update and I'm seeking some thoughts....Her boyfriend is home alone for two weeks, and she is going over on friday to fool around, which I know is just making out and stuff, wont get any further than that, but still I dont know what to do...any ideas?
 
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