"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay, so here's the deal. I live in Edmonton, and snagged a pair of really high seats to an Oilers game. I've known this chick for a couple years, shes fairly hot....So we will be sitting last row at Rexall Place ( the arena )

Any of you guys ever taken a girl to a hockey game as a date ( mind you this isnt a first date, this is a girl ive known for quite a while who has admitted she is very attracted to me )

Any tips or suggestions of what I can do on the very top row of the building? lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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1. guys have to make the first move 90% of the time
2. once you get them horny you can basically do whatever you want and theyre game for it
3. dont do anything crazy or youll get thrown in jail for indecent exposure lol
4. i coulda swore they were all on strike
 

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well something just came up...when i asked her to the game...she was single....now she has a boyfriend who shes been on and off with for a couple years...should I still try to make a move ( she is still coming )

Think I could pull off a good time with a little bit of fun :crackup: from her?
 

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ill tell you a little story... i went out with a girl for 3 months in my afc days... she dumped me obviously... 8 months later we started talking again and she wants me worse than i wanted her (and that was pretty bad) and now she has a boyfriend and i bang her once a week... were dj's bro... not to offend anyone... but boyfriend is just a word to most girls... if you see all the right signs and feel like you can take the shot.. go for it
 

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her boyfriend is kind of one of my buds ( fairly close ) so I feel a little bit confused about what I action i should take with this gal... any suggestions...?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bros before hoes.... if hes really your boy then i wouldnt
 

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So heres an update. Her boyfriend is a total AFC, as much as he may be my best friend...but the girl was awesome tonight...We were holding hands while walking the concourse....i was touching her ( like ass and kino and stuff ) and she didnt mind at all and she was very flirty....flirting is kind of her nature but we did hold hands alot...so maybe thats progress...now im gonna let her go cold turkey and play the waiting game...

any tips?
 

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Originally posted by davester88
So heres an update. Her boyfriend is a total AFC, as much as he may be my best friend...but the girl was awesome tonight...We were holding hands while walking the concourse....i was touching her ( like ass and kino and stuff ) and she didnt mind at all and she was very flirty....flirting is kind of her nature but we did hold hands alot...so maybe thats progress...now im gonna let her go cold turkey and play the waiting game...

any tips?
EXCELLENT!

Call her in like two days, and be like "yeah I really had a good time friday night, you looked really nice.... I was wondering if you want to go do ____________(insert activity) on ________(insert day). She'll say yes or offer to reschedule.

Follow up on your awesome performance, and at least make out with her.

Two thumbs up!
 

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Well one of our buddies is having a bit of a get together tonight and she is going....i think she bailed on her plans with her boyfriend today ( whos also a good bud of mine....) We always talk about making out and stuff....I know she's definitely game....but I don't wanna hurt my bud who is a total AFC....any advice what to do?

Let her go cold turkey?....not go tonite to the get together, I have other offers to go out other places so maybe I should do that.....But I know shes attracted to me and we could have some fun :D but don't wanna hurt my buddy just yet....or at all for that matter so I should maybe take her out once more and then be patient and wait for them to break up eh?

Also, I'm not really wanting a relationship ( the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing persay ) just someone to go out with and have some fun, but more than a fcuk buddy, you know?

Any tips, ideas or past experiences you could share relating?

Thanks guys, and thanks AC/DC for the 2 thumbs up!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AC/DC, do you think because i didnt go for the kiss at the game right away that dropped her interest level? after reading your post about who cares if she has a boyfriend....i will be following that the next game we go to in a couple of weeks....thanks guys
 

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Just a quick update and I'm seeking some thoughts....Her boyfriend is home alone for two weeks, and she is going over on friday to fool around, which I know is just making out and stuff, wont get any further than that, but still I dont know what to do...any ideas?
 
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