"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, so here's the deal. I live in Edmonton, and snagged a pair of really high seats to an Oilers game. I've known this chick for a couple years, shes fairly hot....So we will be sitting last row at Rexall Place ( the arena )

Any of you guys ever taken a girl to a hockey game as a date ( mind you this isnt a first date, this is a girl ive known for quite a while who has admitted she is very attracted to me )

Any tips or suggestions of what I can do on the very top row of the building? lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1. guys have to make the first move 90% of the time
2. once you get them horny you can basically do whatever you want and theyre game for it
3. dont do anything crazy or youll get thrown in jail for indecent exposure lol
4. i coulda swore they were all on strike
 
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well something just came up...when i asked her to the game...she was single....now she has a boyfriend who shes been on and off with for a couple years...should I still try to make a move ( she is still coming )

Think I could pull off a good time with a little bit of fun :crackup: from her?
 
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ill tell you a little story... i went out with a girl for 3 months in my afc days... she dumped me obviously... 8 months later we started talking again and she wants me worse than i wanted her (and that was pretty bad) and now she has a boyfriend and i bang her once a week... were dj's bro... not to offend anyone... but boyfriend is just a word to most girls... if you see all the right signs and feel like you can take the shot.. go for it
 
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her boyfriend is kind of one of my buds ( fairly close ) so I feel a little bit confused about what I action i should take with this gal... any suggestions...?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bros before hoes.... if hes really your boy then i wouldnt
 
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So heres an update. Her boyfriend is a total AFC, as much as he may be my best friend...but the girl was awesome tonight...We were holding hands while walking the concourse....i was touching her ( like ass and kino and stuff ) and she didnt mind at all and she was very flirty....flirting is kind of her nature but we did hold hands alot...so maybe thats progress...now im gonna let her go cold turkey and play the waiting game...

any tips?
 
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Originally posted by davester88
So heres an update. Her boyfriend is a total AFC, as much as he may be my best friend...but the girl was awesome tonight...We were holding hands while walking the concourse....i was touching her ( like ass and kino and stuff ) and she didnt mind at all and she was very flirty....flirting is kind of her nature but we did hold hands alot...so maybe thats progress...now im gonna let her go cold turkey and play the waiting game...

any tips?
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EXCELLENT!

Call her in like two days, and be like "yeah I really had a good time friday night, you looked really nice.... I was wondering if you want to go do ____________(insert activity) on ________(insert day). She'll say yes or offer to reschedule.

Follow up on your awesome performance, and at least make out with her.

Two thumbs up!
 
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Well one of our buddies is having a bit of a get together tonight and she is going....i think she bailed on her plans with her boyfriend today ( whos also a good bud of mine....) We always talk about making out and stuff....I know she's definitely game....but I don't wanna hurt my bud who is a total AFC....any advice what to do?

Let her go cold turkey?....not go tonite to the get together, I have other offers to go out other places so maybe I should do that.....But I know shes attracted to me and we could have some fun :D but don't wanna hurt my buddy just yet....or at all for that matter so I should maybe take her out once more and then be patient and wait for them to break up eh?

Also, I'm not really wanting a relationship ( the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing persay ) just someone to go out with and have some fun, but more than a fcuk buddy, you know?

Any tips, ideas or past experiences you could share relating?

Thanks guys, and thanks AC/DC for the 2 thumbs up!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AC/DC, do you think because i didnt go for the kiss at the game right away that dropped her interest level? after reading your post about who cares if she has a boyfriend....i will be following that the next game we go to in a couple of weeks....thanks guys
 
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Just a quick update and I'm seeking some thoughts....Her boyfriend is home alone for two weeks, and she is going over on friday to fool around, which I know is just making out and stuff, wont get any further than that, but still I dont know what to do...any ideas?
 
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