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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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hmmm stalker?

unreal-guy

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so i've been going to the same club pretty much every weekend
lately though, i've noticed the same girl that has been starring at me
i mean she doesn't even smile when i look back

every time i'm dancing with my friends
she would dance behind or near me
then i'd catch her looking back at me every few seconds or so

i mean it's kind of creepy, it's not the first time... it's everytime i go there
she just happens to be there (with friends)

i don't know if i should talk to her :nervous:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ace of Flames

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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
well from my knowledge of the club

1) it's not safe (there are many gangsters with several girlfriends)
2) my **** was grabbed by random girls before
3) most dancers are drunk or on drugs

pretty much every girl i met so far are part of a gang or with bad background
it's like i can't meet a decent normal girl over there
 

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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"

Good advice.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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