"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hmmm stalker?

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so i've been going to the same club pretty much every weekend
lately though, i've noticed the same girl that has been starring at me
i mean she doesn't even smile when i look back

every time i'm dancing with my friends
she would dance behind or near me
then i'd catch her looking back at me every few seconds or so

i mean it's kind of creepy, it's not the first time... it's everytime i go there
she just happens to be there (with friends)

i don't know if i should talk to her :nervous:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
 
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Ace of Flames said:
Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
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well from my knowledge of the club

1) it's not safe (there are many gangsters with several girlfriends)
2) my **** was grabbed by random girls before
3) most dancers are drunk or on drugs

pretty much every girl i met so far are part of a gang or with bad background
it's like i can't meet a decent normal girl over there
 
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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"

Good advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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