"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmmm stalker?

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so i've been going to the same club pretty much every weekend
lately though, i've noticed the same girl that has been starring at me
i mean she doesn't even smile when i look back

every time i'm dancing with my friends
she would dance behind or near me
then i'd catch her looking back at me every few seconds or so

i mean it's kind of creepy, it's not the first time... it's everytime i go there
she just happens to be there (with friends)

i don't know if i should talk to her :nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
 
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Ace of Flames said:
Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
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well from my knowledge of the club

1) it's not safe (there are many gangsters with several girlfriends)
2) my **** was grabbed by random girls before
3) most dancers are drunk or on drugs

pretty much every girl i met so far are part of a gang or with bad background
it's like i can't meet a decent normal girl over there
 
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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"

Good advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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