"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hmmm stalker?

unreal-guy

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so i've been going to the same club pretty much every weekend
lately though, i've noticed the same girl that has been starring at me
i mean she doesn't even smile when i look back

every time i'm dancing with my friends
she would dance behind or near me
then i'd catch her looking back at me every few seconds or so

i mean it's kind of creepy, it's not the first time... it's everytime i go there
she just happens to be there (with friends)

i don't know if i should talk to her :nervous:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ace of Flames

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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
 

unreal-guy

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Ace of Flames said:
Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"
well from my knowledge of the club

1) it's not safe (there are many gangsters with several girlfriends)
2) my **** was grabbed by random girls before
3) most dancers are drunk or on drugs

pretty much every girl i met so far are part of a gang or with bad background
it's like i can't meet a decent normal girl over there
 

Ryan69

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Probably just shy.

Go talk to her and give her a break. She's probably screaming in her head "TALK TO MEEEE!!!"

Good advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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