"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Hmm I'm thinking I'm gold BUT

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
I could always use another expert DJ opinion.

long story short, start talking to this girl, f-up with her in a slight way, and she figures well you f'ed up i'm gonna date my best friend. i said cool you do you, and i'll do me. she agreed and that was that

i don't even call this girl anymore and now she calls me despite everything she's said i blow her off constantly, becuase hey were just friends i don't owe her anything. and she's always, and i mean always talking about her boyfriend and i'm like oh cool and i start talking about him lol, but like the weirdest thing is, is that i mean this guy is supposed to have precidence over me, but when he calls and she's talkin to me she just say's i'll call you back to him and comes back to me and we talk again.

i'm like why don't i let you go so you can talk to your boy, she's like no i said i'd call him later, i'm like uhh, ok then.

weird stuff and now she's starting to put me and her together again like. "oh we should do that" "oh we should do this"

A DJ in my place would be continue on this road and recive the goods, and that's what i'm thinkin, but i dunno she DOES talk about this dude constantly and i could give a shyt less i think she knows that lol. but on the other hand i take precidence over him. so its weird. Any other DJ's got some insight on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

quest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2003
Messages
1,176
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by christz
but on the other hand i take precidence over him. so its weird. Any other DJ's got some insight on this?
who's f*cking her? him or you?

your better at talking on the phone then him.. but she'd obviously rather be banging him..
how about u leave the attention wh*re to the guy and meet another girl.. one that u can bang.
 

Naapimp

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 1, 2005
Messages
53
Reaction score
1
Age
42
This is like the Seinfeld episode 'the summer of George'. She split the role of bf into two jobs, he's playing show room and your stuck with food and beverage. The Dude's ingenious.
 

quest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2003
Messages
1,176
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Naapimp
This is like the Seinfeld episode 'the summer of George'. She split the role of bf into two jobs, he's playing show room and your stuck with food and beverage. The Dude's ingenious.
damn i love seinfeld..

and there is a great episode directly relating to the methods we discuss here..
dont know the name, but its when george gets his job at the new york yankees..

he decides to do the opposite of everything he would normally do..

he gets hot girls + good jobs that way :)

but the important thing was the realisation that he's been doing the same thing his whole life and getting no where, like so many of us have all been through.
 

christz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2004
Messages
740
Reaction score
0
who said he's fu*king her? the dude is 13 hours away, about to be shipped back to iraq to fight the good fight possibly in a year, he still has 2 years of active marine duty left.

none of us are hittin it, but that wasn't the question
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

CraigMack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2005
Messages
210
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by christz
who said he's fu*king her? the dude is 13 hours away, about to be shipped back to iraq to fight the good fight possibly in a year, he still has 2 years of active marine duty left.

none of us are hittin it, but that wasn't the question
Then it's pretty obvious that she is selecting her next victim! Just like a female. When one door is closing they already have the next door lined up and waiting.
 
Top