"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hmm I'm thinking I'm gold BUT

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I could always use another expert DJ opinion.

long story short, start talking to this girl, f-up with her in a slight way, and she figures well you f'ed up i'm gonna date my best friend. i said cool you do you, and i'll do me. she agreed and that was that

i don't even call this girl anymore and now she calls me despite everything she's said i blow her off constantly, becuase hey were just friends i don't owe her anything. and she's always, and i mean always talking about her boyfriend and i'm like oh cool and i start talking about him lol, but like the weirdest thing is, is that i mean this guy is supposed to have precidence over me, but when he calls and she's talkin to me she just say's i'll call you back to him and comes back to me and we talk again.

i'm like why don't i let you go so you can talk to your boy, she's like no i said i'd call him later, i'm like uhh, ok then.

weird stuff and now she's starting to put me and her together again like. "oh we should do that" "oh we should do this"

A DJ in my place would be continue on this road and recive the goods, and that's what i'm thinkin, but i dunno she DOES talk about this dude constantly and i could give a shyt less i think she knows that lol. but on the other hand i take precidence over him. so its weird. Any other DJ's got some insight on this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by christz
but on the other hand i take precidence over him. so its weird. Any other DJ's got some insight on this?
who's f*cking her? him or you?

your better at talking on the phone then him.. but she'd obviously rather be banging him..
how about u leave the attention wh*re to the guy and meet another girl.. one that u can bang.
 

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This is like the Seinfeld episode 'the summer of George'. She split the role of bf into two jobs, he's playing show room and your stuck with food and beverage. The Dude's ingenious.
 

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Originally posted by Naapimp
This is like the Seinfeld episode 'the summer of George'. She split the role of bf into two jobs, he's playing show room and your stuck with food and beverage. The Dude's ingenious.
damn i love seinfeld..

and there is a great episode directly relating to the methods we discuss here..
dont know the name, but its when george gets his job at the new york yankees..

he decides to do the opposite of everything he would normally do..

he gets hot girls + good jobs that way :)

but the important thing was the realisation that he's been doing the same thing his whole life and getting no where, like so many of us have all been through.
 

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who said he's fu*king her? the dude is 13 hours away, about to be shipped back to iraq to fight the good fight possibly in a year, he still has 2 years of active marine duty left.

none of us are hittin it, but that wasn't the question
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by christz
who said he's fu*king her? the dude is 13 hours away, about to be shipped back to iraq to fight the good fight possibly in a year, he still has 2 years of active marine duty left.

none of us are hittin it, but that wasn't the question
Then it's pretty obvious that she is selecting her next victim! Just like a female. When one door is closing they already have the next door lined up and waiting.
 
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