"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hmm I'm thinking I'm gold BUT

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I could always use another expert DJ opinion.

long story short, start talking to this girl, f-up with her in a slight way, and she figures well you f'ed up i'm gonna date my best friend. i said cool you do you, and i'll do me. she agreed and that was that

i don't even call this girl anymore and now she calls me despite everything she's said i blow her off constantly, becuase hey were just friends i don't owe her anything. and she's always, and i mean always talking about her boyfriend and i'm like oh cool and i start talking about him lol, but like the weirdest thing is, is that i mean this guy is supposed to have precidence over me, but when he calls and she's talkin to me she just say's i'll call you back to him and comes back to me and we talk again.

i'm like why don't i let you go so you can talk to your boy, she's like no i said i'd call him later, i'm like uhh, ok then.

weird stuff and now she's starting to put me and her together again like. "oh we should do that" "oh we should do this"

A DJ in my place would be continue on this road and recive the goods, and that's what i'm thinkin, but i dunno she DOES talk about this dude constantly and i could give a shyt less i think she knows that lol. but on the other hand i take precidence over him. so its weird. Any other DJ's got some insight on this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by christz
but on the other hand i take precidence over him. so its weird. Any other DJ's got some insight on this?
who's f*cking her? him or you?

your better at talking on the phone then him.. but she'd obviously rather be banging him..
how about u leave the attention wh*re to the guy and meet another girl.. one that u can bang.
 

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This is like the Seinfeld episode 'the summer of George'. She split the role of bf into two jobs, he's playing show room and your stuck with food and beverage. The Dude's ingenious.
 

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Originally posted by Naapimp
This is like the Seinfeld episode 'the summer of George'. She split the role of bf into two jobs, he's playing show room and your stuck with food and beverage. The Dude's ingenious.
damn i love seinfeld..

and there is a great episode directly relating to the methods we discuss here..
dont know the name, but its when george gets his job at the new york yankees..

he decides to do the opposite of everything he would normally do..

he gets hot girls + good jobs that way :)

but the important thing was the realisation that he's been doing the same thing his whole life and getting no where, like so many of us have all been through.
 

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who said he's fu*king her? the dude is 13 hours away, about to be shipped back to iraq to fight the good fight possibly in a year, he still has 2 years of active marine duty left.

none of us are hittin it, but that wasn't the question
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by christz
who said he's fu*king her? the dude is 13 hours away, about to be shipped back to iraq to fight the good fight possibly in a year, he still has 2 years of active marine duty left.

none of us are hittin it, but that wasn't the question
Then it's pretty obvious that she is selecting her next victim! Just like a female. When one door is closing they already have the next door lined up and waiting.
 
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