"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmm, her dreams?

runawayfromwho

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im in highschool currently, and im with this girl for about 11months so far.
she recently told me about her dreams of kissing her ex boyfriend or her ex-crushes, nd cuddling or what not [she might not of told me the whole truth]
hmm and this one time, i remember her telling me she broke up with me to be with this other guy [her ex-crush] and said she really didnt feel anything towards it like ie. that 'spark' -,-. i dont know what to do, kinda confused :whistle:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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woods

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they're just dreams. dont sweat it. I'd worry about the fact that she's telling you about them. She might be trying to make you jealous, and making them up. I'd tell her to keep her fvcking mouth shut about them. Thats really selfish to tell you shyt like that, IMO.

Maybe you should have a "dream" about slitting her throat for messing around with other dudes, while your sleeping.
 

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woods said:
Maybe you should have a "dream" about slitting her throat for messing around with other dudes, while your sleeping.
Well said Woods. But just by saying that you could lose the relationship easily.
 

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i hate girls and their games,

if you dream about ****ing her best friend im sure you wont run to her and tell her about it...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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