Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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hmm, her dreams?

runawayfromwho

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im in highschool currently, and im with this girl for about 11months so far.
she recently told me about her dreams of kissing her ex boyfriend or her ex-crushes, nd cuddling or what not [she might not of told me the whole truth]
hmm and this one time, i remember her telling me she broke up with me to be with this other guy [her ex-crush] and said she really didnt feel anything towards it like ie. that 'spark' -,-. i dont know what to do, kinda confused :whistle:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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woods

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they're just dreams. dont sweat it. I'd worry about the fact that she's telling you about them. She might be trying to make you jealous, and making them up. I'd tell her to keep her fvcking mouth shut about them. Thats really selfish to tell you shyt like that, IMO.

Maybe you should have a "dream" about slitting her throat for messing around with other dudes, while your sleeping.
 

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woods said:
Maybe you should have a "dream" about slitting her throat for messing around with other dudes, while your sleeping.
Well said Woods. But just by saying that you could lose the relationship easily.
 

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i hate girls and their games,

if you dream about ****ing her best friend im sure you wont run to her and tell her about it...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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