"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hmm, her dreams?

runawayfromwho

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im in highschool currently, and im with this girl for about 11months so far.
she recently told me about her dreams of kissing her ex boyfriend or her ex-crushes, nd cuddling or what not [she might not of told me the whole truth]
hmm and this one time, i remember her telling me she broke up with me to be with this other guy [her ex-crush] and said she really didnt feel anything towards it like ie. that 'spark' -,-. i dont know what to do, kinda confused :whistle:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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woods

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they're just dreams. dont sweat it. I'd worry about the fact that she's telling you about them. She might be trying to make you jealous, and making them up. I'd tell her to keep her fvcking mouth shut about them. Thats really selfish to tell you shyt like that, IMO.

Maybe you should have a "dream" about slitting her throat for messing around with other dudes, while your sleeping.
 

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woods said:
Maybe you should have a "dream" about slitting her throat for messing around with other dudes, while your sleeping.
Well said Woods. But just by saying that you could lose the relationship easily.
 

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i hate girls and their games,

if you dream about ****ing her best friend im sure you wont run to her and tell her about it...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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