"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hm, what does this mean?

TheMinistered

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I finally grabbed my balls and decided to quit making excuses, anywho talking to this 9hb and she offered to give me a ride to where I was going. When I was talking to her she kept like good eye contact ( i have nice eyes too, very light blue-- always get tips on them) but when I played the eye contact hard she was looking all over the place. What does that mean?

Also, I know from some friends that she doesn't do drugs/etc because she had a bad trip. I asked her about her bad trip but didn't mention the not doing drugs part-- and she lied about not doing drugs (she thinks i do drugs, and I do a little but nothing hard... She trying to impress me or something? yes or no?)
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJoneday

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It means she isn't opening up to you about something personal yet, it doesn't mean there's no interest- especially if she said she'd give you a ride. Don't worry about the whole ec thing, some people just aren't comfortable with it (But don't back off on it) and just keep playing your cards right.
 

RaMar

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the lots of eye contact is good man but make sure your not stareing(sp?). Look away once in the while. She probably felt like you were stareing and that is probably why she was looking all over the place.
 
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Well i do think that she isn trying nething, she was just being polite about u asking, without having to tell u ¨Dont mess with my life..¨ thats it. period, she wasn´t trying to pick u up or something. Ne way, if u want to be a succesful DJ stop carin to much waht women think, ok!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jonny football hero

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Maybe she was looking away because........she was trying to drive.

Dont overanaylyse (sp?) things, she gave you a lift she has an IL. She prolly doesn't want to open up to strangers about drug trips.
 

TheMinistered

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ok, i don't give a sh1t about what she is thinking... i just want to know what some of this sh1t meant to use it to further my game... there are like what? 5million other women out there? lol-- what is one b1tch to me? lol
 
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