"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hm, what does this mean?

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I finally grabbed my balls and decided to quit making excuses, anywho talking to this 9hb and she offered to give me a ride to where I was going. When I was talking to her she kept like good eye contact ( i have nice eyes too, very light blue-- always get tips on them) but when I played the eye contact hard she was looking all over the place. What does that mean?

Also, I know from some friends that she doesn't do drugs/etc because she had a bad trip. I asked her about her bad trip but didn't mention the not doing drugs part-- and she lied about not doing drugs (she thinks i do drugs, and I do a little but nothing hard... She trying to impress me or something? yes or no?)
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It means she isn't opening up to you about something personal yet, it doesn't mean there's no interest- especially if she said she'd give you a ride. Don't worry about the whole ec thing, some people just aren't comfortable with it (But don't back off on it) and just keep playing your cards right.
 
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the lots of eye contact is good man but make sure your not stareing(sp?). Look away once in the while. She probably felt like you were stareing and that is probably why she was looking all over the place.
 
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Well i do think that she isn trying nething, she was just being polite about u asking, without having to tell u ¨Dont mess with my life..¨ thats it. period, she wasn´t trying to pick u up or something. Ne way, if u want to be a succesful DJ stop carin to much waht women think, ok!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe she was looking away because........she was trying to drive.

Dont overanaylyse (sp?) things, she gave you a lift she has an IL. She prolly doesn't want to open up to strangers about drug trips.
 
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ok, i don't give a sh1t about what she is thinking... i just want to know what some of this sh1t meant to use it to further my game... there are like what? 5million other women out there? lol-- what is one b1tch to me? lol
 
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