Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hm, what does this mean?

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I finally grabbed my balls and decided to quit making excuses, anywho talking to this 9hb and she offered to give me a ride to where I was going. When I was talking to her she kept like good eye contact ( i have nice eyes too, very light blue-- always get tips on them) but when I played the eye contact hard she was looking all over the place. What does that mean?

Also, I know from some friends that she doesn't do drugs/etc because she had a bad trip. I asked her about her bad trip but didn't mention the not doing drugs part-- and she lied about not doing drugs (she thinks i do drugs, and I do a little but nothing hard... She trying to impress me or something? yes or no?)
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It means she isn't opening up to you about something personal yet, it doesn't mean there's no interest- especially if she said she'd give you a ride. Don't worry about the whole ec thing, some people just aren't comfortable with it (But don't back off on it) and just keep playing your cards right.
 
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the lots of eye contact is good man but make sure your not stareing(sp?). Look away once in the while. She probably felt like you were stareing and that is probably why she was looking all over the place.
 
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Well i do think that she isn trying nething, she was just being polite about u asking, without having to tell u ¨Dont mess with my life..¨ thats it. period, she wasn´t trying to pick u up or something. Ne way, if u want to be a succesful DJ stop carin to much waht women think, ok!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe she was looking away because........she was trying to drive.

Dont overanaylyse (sp?) things, she gave you a lift she has an IL. She prolly doesn't want to open up to strangers about drug trips.
 
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ok, i don't give a sh1t about what she is thinking... i just want to know what some of this sh1t meant to use it to further my game... there are like what? 5million other women out there? lol-- what is one b1tch to me? lol
 
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