"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is there any point to it? You've got a few hotties out in the water with you with SO MANY GUYS around. Is there really any chance of hooking up with these girls even if you start a convo and work some game?

I can't think of anything that won't sound retarded, and besides the fact that while you're talking to them they say hold on and go catch a wave, leaving you sitting there like a retard.

Lost cause?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol, if you are gonna surf, u do it because u love the sport, then if you meet a woman out in the water its a bonus. Not everything in life is about how many woman u can meet!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Not everything in life is about how many woman u can meet!!!!!!
thats actually a very good quote. i think i'm gonna put that in my profile, minus the 6 !'s heh
 

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Originally posted by California Love
If u try hittin on the chicks you'll miss all the good waves.
That's a better quote ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So true, but I go surfing every day and there's not these tan ass'd beach girls swimming around all the time.
 

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Originally posted by Trippsta
So true, but I go surfing every day and there's not these tan ass'd beach girls swimming around all the time.
huh? So you go surfing every day, why? Because u love the sport? Or just to meet woman? I could think of MANY more places to meet woman. Surfing is mainly for guys!!!

If u enjoy the sport, do it because u love it. There are plenty other places to meet woman. So yeah, there is a point to it!
 
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