"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sexual

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Is there any point to it? You've got a few hotties out in the water with you with SO MANY GUYS around. Is there really any chance of hooking up with these girls even if you start a convo and work some game?

I can't think of anything that won't sound retarded, and besides the fact that while you're talking to them they say hold on and go catch a wave, leaving you sitting there like a retard.

Lost cause?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CLOONEY

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lol, if you are gonna surf, u do it because u love the sport, then if you meet a woman out in the water its a bonus. Not everything in life is about how many woman u can meet!!!!!!
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Not everything in life is about how many woman u can meet!!!!!!
thats actually a very good quote. i think i'm gonna put that in my profile, minus the 6 !'s heh
 

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Originally posted by California Love
If u try hittin on the chicks you'll miss all the good waves.
That's a better quote ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So true, but I go surfing every day and there's not these tan ass'd beach girls swimming around all the time.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by Trippsta
So true, but I go surfing every day and there's not these tan ass'd beach girls swimming around all the time.
huh? So you go surfing every day, why? Because u love the sport? Or just to meet woman? I could think of MANY more places to meet woman. Surfing is mainly for guys!!!

If u enjoy the sport, do it because u love it. There are plenty other places to meet woman. So yeah, there is a point to it!
 
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