"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hitting on people younger than you

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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perseverance said:
Were you a member of the Mudjahideen?
Don't you have better sh1t to do then b1tch and wine, especially on NYE's. Women are looking for men, not baby boys who cry every time someone gets on their nerves.

Back on topic, older women are way more easier for me. They hit on me frequently and are more open to me chatting them up. Younger girls generally are harder to game as you need decent game to get younger women since they have the pick of the litter.

I used to find it weird that girls used to date older men and used to be creeped out by it. As time passes, i realize that nothing in life is free. If i want a promotion i got to hustle for it. If i want to go to grad school, i have to save up money and study hard for the graduate exams. If i want a hot girl i have to go and talk to her. Not every girl will be attracted to me, but i see nothing wrong going after what i want understanding that i need to work to get it and i have no problem seeing older guys going after younger girls (of legal age). It just shows that you will go after what you want and you want a better life for yourself.

Going after what you want shows confidence, and confidence is very attractive to girls. Obviously this means not to be a creep about it, which many of us had/have to learn.
 
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Don't you have better sh1t to do then b1tch and wine, especially on NYE's. Women are looking for men, not baby boys who cry every time someone gets on their nerves.
This coming from a fella who can't even bang an ugly Asian chick? Yeah, you sure as hell know what women want. :crackup:
 

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U mad. Here's a tissue. When u actually talk to a girl then u can talk. Otherwise stick to your tissues.
 

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My age differences of my hottest women, lifetime:

Me:Her
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18:16
23:18
27:17
33:25
36:27
40:47
41:19 (still active, now at 42:21)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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