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Were you a member of the Mudjahideen?Burroughs said:u mad 'perseverance'
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hitting on people younger than you
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don't you have better sh1t to do then b1tch and wine, especially on NYE's. Women are looking for men, not baby boys who cry every time someone gets on their nerves.perseverance said:
Back on topic, older women are way more easier for me. They hit on me frequently and are more open to me chatting them up. Younger girls generally are harder to game as you need decent game to get younger women since they have the pick of the litter.
I used to find it weird that girls used to date older men and used to be creeped out by it. As time passes, i realize that nothing in life is free. If i want a promotion i got to hustle for it. If i want to go to grad school, i have to save up money and study hard for the graduate exams. If i want a hot girl i have to go and talk to her. Not every girl will be attracted to me, but i see nothing wrong going after what i want understanding that i need to work to get it and i have no problem seeing older guys going after younger girls (of legal age). It just shows that you will go after what you want and you want a better life for yourself.
Going after what you want shows confidence, and confidence is very attractive to girls. Obviously this means not to be a creep about it, which many of us had/have to learn.
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This coming from a fella who can't even bang an ugly Asian chick? Yeah, you sure as hell know what women want. :crackup:AAAgent said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.