"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hitting on people younger than you

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AAAgent

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perseverance said:
Were you a member of the Mudjahideen?
Don't you have better sh1t to do then b1tch and wine, especially on NYE's. Women are looking for men, not baby boys who cry every time someone gets on their nerves.

Back on topic, older women are way more easier for me. They hit on me frequently and are more open to me chatting them up. Younger girls generally are harder to game as you need decent game to get younger women since they have the pick of the litter.

I used to find it weird that girls used to date older men and used to be creeped out by it. As time passes, i realize that nothing in life is free. If i want a promotion i got to hustle for it. If i want to go to grad school, i have to save up money and study hard for the graduate exams. If i want a hot girl i have to go and talk to her. Not every girl will be attracted to me, but i see nothing wrong going after what i want understanding that i need to work to get it and i have no problem seeing older guys going after younger girls (of legal age). It just shows that you will go after what you want and you want a better life for yourself.

Going after what you want shows confidence, and confidence is very attractive to girls. Obviously this means not to be a creep about it, which many of us had/have to learn.
 
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AAAgent said:
Don't you have better sh1t to do then b1tch and wine, especially on NYE's. Women are looking for men, not baby boys who cry every time someone gets on their nerves.
This coming from a fella who can't even bang an ugly Asian chick? Yeah, you sure as hell know what women want. :crackup:
 

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U mad. Here's a tissue. When u actually talk to a girl then u can talk. Otherwise stick to your tissues.
 

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My age differences of my hottest women, lifetime:

Me:Her
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18:16
23:18
27:17
33:25
36:27
40:47
41:19 (still active, now at 42:21)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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