"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hitting on girls using AURA bottle water!!

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Hey guys I am new here, but wanna share my experience with you guys.

I was hitting on the cashier girl in the fitness center.

Assume the AURA bottle water that I bought is worth 12 buck.

When I go to the cashier in the fitness center, I pretend that I didn't bring

enough money, I only bring 11 buck. So, there is one more buck to go.

Of course, the cashier girl is going to sell you can come back to pay me later.

(We have been seeing each other for a while, but this time I try to break

my comfort zone and initiate the conversation)

Later, when I came back to pay, I also bought a glass of smoothie drink

from her so that when she was making the smoothie I can talk to her.

At the end of the day, I got a lil background of her and, of course, her name also.

Right now, the problem is how should I make the next move?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should continue to be as passive-aggressive as possible, because that's what trolls do.
 
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On the off chance that this isn't trollish, you realize you spent $11 on a water bottle + however much that smoothie cost just to get a girl's name.

Wait never mind it has to be a troll, follow loveshogun's advice.
 
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loveshogun said:
You should continue to be as passive-aggressive as possible, because that's what trolls do.
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I don't get what you really mean.

Would you mind explaining that?

Thanks
 
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What these guys are trying to say is that there are easier ways to talk to this girls.

It's good that you see her and know her. If you're interested, then TALK to her. Ask her name, ask her phone number etc.

Worst case is she doesn't like you and you move on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WalkingStick said:
What these guys are trying to say is that there are easier ways to talk to this girls.

It's good that you see her and know her. If you're interested, then TALK to her. Ask her name, ask her phone number etc.

Worst case is she doesn't like you and you move on.
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At last, I got to know her and today im gonna ask her out for dinner after

finishing her work. will let u guys know the result.
 
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