"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hitting on girls using AURA bottle water!!

keemojung

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Hey guys I am new here, but wanna share my experience with you guys.

I was hitting on the cashier girl in the fitness center.

Assume the AURA bottle water that I bought is worth 12 buck.

When I go to the cashier in the fitness center, I pretend that I didn't bring

enough money, I only bring 11 buck. So, there is one more buck to go.

Of course, the cashier girl is going to sell you can come back to pay me later.

(We have been seeing each other for a while, but this time I try to break

my comfort zone and initiate the conversation)

Later, when I came back to pay, I also bought a glass of smoothie drink

from her so that when she was making the smoothie I can talk to her.

At the end of the day, I got a lil background of her and, of course, her name also.

Right now, the problem is how should I make the next move?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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loveshogun

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You should continue to be as passive-aggressive as possible, because that's what trolls do.
 

ArcBound

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On the off chance that this isn't trollish, you realize you spent $11 on a water bottle + however much that smoothie cost just to get a girl's name.

Wait never mind it has to be a troll, follow loveshogun's advice.
 

keemojung

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loveshogun said:
You should continue to be as passive-aggressive as possible, because that's what trolls do.

I don't get what you really mean.

Would you mind explaining that?

Thanks
 

WalkingStick

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What these guys are trying to say is that there are easier ways to talk to this girls.

It's good that you see her and know her. If you're interested, then TALK to her. Ask her name, ask her phone number etc.

Worst case is she doesn't like you and you move on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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keemojung

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WalkingStick said:
What these guys are trying to say is that there are easier ways to talk to this girls.

It's good that you see her and know her. If you're interested, then TALK to her. Ask her name, ask her phone number etc.

Worst case is she doesn't like you and you move on.
At last, I got to know her and today im gonna ask her out for dinner after

finishing her work. will let u guys know the result.
 
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