"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hitting on girls using AURA bottle water!!

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Hey guys I am new here, but wanna share my experience with you guys.

I was hitting on the cashier girl in the fitness center.

Assume the AURA bottle water that I bought is worth 12 buck.

When I go to the cashier in the fitness center, I pretend that I didn't bring

enough money, I only bring 11 buck. So, there is one more buck to go.

Of course, the cashier girl is going to sell you can come back to pay me later.

(We have been seeing each other for a while, but this time I try to break

my comfort zone and initiate the conversation)

Later, when I came back to pay, I also bought a glass of smoothie drink

from her so that when she was making the smoothie I can talk to her.

At the end of the day, I got a lil background of her and, of course, her name also.

Right now, the problem is how should I make the next move?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You should continue to be as passive-aggressive as possible, because that's what trolls do.
 
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On the off chance that this isn't trollish, you realize you spent $11 on a water bottle + however much that smoothie cost just to get a girl's name.

Wait never mind it has to be a troll, follow loveshogun's advice.
 
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keemojung

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loveshogun said:
You should continue to be as passive-aggressive as possible, because that's what trolls do.
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I don't get what you really mean.

Would you mind explaining that?

Thanks
 
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What these guys are trying to say is that there are easier ways to talk to this girls.

It's good that you see her and know her. If you're interested, then TALK to her. Ask her name, ask her phone number etc.

Worst case is she doesn't like you and you move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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keemojung

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WalkingStick said:
What these guys are trying to say is that there are easier ways to talk to this girls.

It's good that you see her and know her. If you're interested, then TALK to her. Ask her name, ask her phone number etc.

Worst case is she doesn't like you and you move on.
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At last, I got to know her and today im gonna ask her out for dinner after

finishing her work. will let u guys know the result.
 
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