"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jetleg

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I study medicine in a big city in europe, but i our campus is very small outside the city with maybe 800 students, everyone knows everyone here...

There is this one new chick that keeps checking me out and flirting with me. i wanna hit on her but my gut tells me this is no go. i already hat something smiliar (girl from the faculity) which ended saying some sh1t about me to her friends, but luckly it didnt get too far, because this girl droped from the school. (i got really lucky there).

She is really cute and looks like a good girl, but at the same time i don't want to hassle with the possibility of rumors and seeing her every day, what do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skipp

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I agree with ruler you should not care about the opinions of others. And your probably over thinking everything just grab thoes kahonaes and do what needs to be done.
 

usernamedox11

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ask to study together then after some studying, ask her to get drinks or coffee with you and take it from there
 
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