"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jetleg

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I study medicine in a big city in europe, but i our campus is very small outside the city with maybe 800 students, everyone knows everyone here...

There is this one new chick that keeps checking me out and flirting with me. i wanna hit on her but my gut tells me this is no go. i already hat something smiliar (girl from the faculity) which ended saying some sh1t about me to her friends, but luckly it didnt get too far, because this girl droped from the school. (i got really lucky there).

She is really cute and looks like a good girl, but at the same time i don't want to hassle with the possibility of rumors and seeing her every day, what do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skipp

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I agree with ruler you should not care about the opinions of others. And your probably over thinking everything just grab thoes kahonaes and do what needs to be done.
 

usernamedox11

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ask to study together then after some studying, ask her to get drinks or coffee with you and take it from there
 
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