"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jetleg

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I study medicine in a big city in europe, but i our campus is very small outside the city with maybe 800 students, everyone knows everyone here...

There is this one new chick that keeps checking me out and flirting with me. i wanna hit on her but my gut tells me this is no go. i already hat something smiliar (girl from the faculity) which ended saying some sh1t about me to her friends, but luckly it didnt get too far, because this girl droped from the school. (i got really lucky there).

She is really cute and looks like a good girl, but at the same time i don't want to hassle with the possibility of rumors and seeing her every day, what do you think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skipp

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I agree with ruler you should not care about the opinions of others. And your probably over thinking everything just grab thoes kahonaes and do what needs to be done.
 

usernamedox11

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ask to study together then after some studying, ask her to get drinks or coffee with you and take it from there
 
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