"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hitting it off again with someone who you...

omgwtfm8

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A month ago me and this HB9 were hitting things off on a shaky start, timing was bad (recently broken up ex-bf, etc.) We did hook up a little, just simple kissing.

I called things off with her, because she needed time, I knew she wasn't ready for any form of "talking".

Well it's been a month, she's seems lonely, i'm gonna try and start talking to her again. We randomly msg on facebook here and there. But nothing consistent.

How should i handle HB9.0 considering we had already hooked up?, i'm trying to go for the relationship this time. She is LTR material.

I'm def going to ask her out, I dont know whether to ask her out on date (which makes things kinda big deal) or should i just go for the chill watch a movie indoors thing. I could take her out to a party, but I've done that before and I don't think that's good to start up the talking again.

I'm trying things differently this time, I'm tired of hookups, I want something more serious.

Any advice would help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grimple

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Does she know the reason you stepped back was because of her exbf? I would just approach her. (Make sure to mention that) but don't get into a full on conversation about it. Just mention it and leave it at that. And if you are looking for a relationship, then I would deff avoid taking her to a party. The indoor movie sounds good. Invite her over to your house and watch a movie on your couch or something. If its talking you want, then this would probably be the best. Just remember to keep your game up, and lay some moves on her.

Good luck.
 
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