"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hitting it off again with someone who you...

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omgwtfm8

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A month ago me and this HB9 were hitting things off on a shaky start, timing was bad (recently broken up ex-bf, etc.) We did hook up a little, just simple kissing.

I called things off with her, because she needed time, I knew she wasn't ready for any form of "talking".

Well it's been a month, she's seems lonely, i'm gonna try and start talking to her again. We randomly msg on facebook here and there. But nothing consistent.

How should i handle HB9.0 considering we had already hooked up?, i'm trying to go for the relationship this time. She is LTR material.

I'm def going to ask her out, I dont know whether to ask her out on date (which makes things kinda big deal) or should i just go for the chill watch a movie indoors thing. I could take her out to a party, but I've done that before and I don't think that's good to start up the talking again.

I'm trying things differently this time, I'm tired of hookups, I want something more serious.

Any advice would help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does she know the reason you stepped back was because of her exbf? I would just approach her. (Make sure to mention that) but don't get into a full on conversation about it. Just mention it and leave it at that. And if you are looking for a relationship, then I would deff avoid taking her to a party. The indoor movie sounds good. Invite her over to your house and watch a movie on your couch or something. If its talking you want, then this would probably be the best. Just remember to keep your game up, and lay some moves on her.

Good luck.
 
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