Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hitting it off again with someone who you...

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omgwtfm8

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A month ago me and this HB9 were hitting things off on a shaky start, timing was bad (recently broken up ex-bf, etc.) We did hook up a little, just simple kissing.

I called things off with her, because she needed time, I knew she wasn't ready for any form of "talking".

Well it's been a month, she's seems lonely, i'm gonna try and start talking to her again. We randomly msg on facebook here and there. But nothing consistent.

How should i handle HB9.0 considering we had already hooked up?, i'm trying to go for the relationship this time. She is LTR material.

I'm def going to ask her out, I dont know whether to ask her out on date (which makes things kinda big deal) or should i just go for the chill watch a movie indoors thing. I could take her out to a party, but I've done that before and I don't think that's good to start up the talking again.

I'm trying things differently this time, I'm tired of hookups, I want something more serious.

Any advice would help
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does she know the reason you stepped back was because of her exbf? I would just approach her. (Make sure to mention that) but don't get into a full on conversation about it. Just mention it and leave it at that. And if you are looking for a relationship, then I would deff avoid taking her to a party. The indoor movie sounds good. Invite her over to your house and watch a movie on your couch or something. If its talking you want, then this would probably be the best. Just remember to keep your game up, and lay some moves on her.

Good luck.
 
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