"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hitting a homer

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Yo, I got this girl, she's mine man, next time I see her it's going down. But she's a virgin. Is there anyway to give her pleasure cause I heard it's hard for girl virgins to have a good time during sex because it hurts them. I want to make the love to her so good shell think screwing anyone else is boring. Any tips?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by eba
Yo, I got this girl, she's mine man, next time I see her it's going down. But she's a virgin. Is there anyway to give her pleasure cause I heard it's hard for girl virgins to have a good time during sex because it hurts them. I want to make the love to her so good shell think screwing anyone else is boring. Any tips?
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don't be totally concerned with pleasing her. Just make her as comfortable as possible. So unless your a pimp you shouldn't worry about being her best time./
 
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Re: Re: Hitting a homer

Originally posted by Vincent
don't be totally concerned with pleasing her. Just make her as comfortable as possible. So unless your a pimp you shouldn't worry about being her best time./
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*Chokes on water* What!?

Look, it's her first time. Yeah, it'll hurt her at first (usually,) but that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice pleasing her. She can be comfortable as a massage patient. But, unless she gets pleasure, why should she like sex? Take things slowy and try to make things as enjoyable for her as possible. I don't have time, but there is a post on here about making a virgins first time good.
 
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Take it slow. Lots of foreplay action. I suggest going down on her to get her off and make you seem like a really good lover. If it's her first time, she'll be tight and most girls will feel some pain for a while, but most start to enjoy it after a bit. Make sure she is warmed up and turned on. There are plenty of sex guides on this site, follow them.

Even if you do real well, she probably won't think screwing someone else is boring since she's never screwed anyone else before. Just make her really enjoy it and she'll be begging for more later on.
 
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just cause shes "yours" doesnt mean shell do anything you want....she might, but she might not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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